Alarm frontman Mike Peter's reveals how making a documentary saved his wife's life
The Alarm’s Mike Peters said his decision to be the focus of a documentary saved his wife’s life.
BBC Wales’ programme team were already well into the production schedule – with the attention very much on Mike – when a fateful conversation took place between Jules Peters and Emyr Afan, the producer/director of the programme and the chief executive of independent production company, Avanti Media.
Mike said: “Making the programme really saved Jules’ life.
“It was when we were doing Snowdon Rocks last summer, and Jules and Emyr were walking back down from the summit of Snowdon, and got talking about the charity bike rides Emyr had been doing to raise breast cancer awareness.
“Emyr impressed on Jules the importance of testing yourself and Jules said, ‘of course I test myself’. But Emyr insisted and said no, really go deep – really test yourself deeply.
“It was the next morning that Jules found the lump on her breast.”
Mike is convinced that any further delay in getting the lump checked out might have had tragic consequences.
“As Jules has only just turned 50 this last month, it’s only now that she would have qualified for the test that maybe would have detected it through a mammogram,” he said.
“If Emyr hadn’t made the film – if he hadn’t given Jules that advice that day – it might have been undetected for another year, I might not have a wife now, and our sons Dylan and Evan might not have a mother.
“So from our family we’d like to thank Emyr deeply, and all the production team, for keeping Jules alive.”
In spite of going through such a difficult time, the couple decided to keep making the documentary.
Mike and Jules: While We Still Have Time, turned out to be very different to what was originally planned – a powerful and honest story of a woman with breast cancer, and her personal journey through diagnosis, surgery and treatment.
Jules said: “We’ve known Emyr for a long time, so I trusted him, and that’s why we originally decided to make the BBC Wales programme with Avanti. And, in the end, I’m so glad I did it – it really helped me through, I don’t think I could have done it without Emyr and the team, it was like having therapy on tap. They took great care and I think they helped me embrace the whole journey and really dig deeper than I could have done otherwise.”
The couple are no strangers to cancer. The previous summer, husband Mike relapsed for a third time, 20 years after first being diagnosed with non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma.
On the programme Jules says that, if anyone can deal with cancer, they’re probably the best couple to do so.
The programme includes contributions from close family friends, including U2’s Bono, who said: “Them both being ill is a whole new level of difficulty, but they’re up to it. They’ll win this fight and the most important thing is that they have long lives because they’ve a lot to contribute – we need more people like this.”
* Mike and Jules: While We Still Have Time will be broadcast on BBC One Wales on Monday, May 22, at 9pm.
The programme will be immediately followed on BBC Two Wales at 10pm with Mike Peters: The Alarm Live – highlights from this year’s 25th Anniversary of The Gathering from Llandudno – the key annual event for Mike Peters’ fans attended by Alarm followers from all over the world.
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